Bus Stop

Waiting at the bus stop at Fifth Ave and 86th St the other day a young woman, probably in her 20s,  asked me where she could get the limited. I told her it stopped about two blocks south, and she thanked me and started walking down Fifth.  Then, checking my watch I realized I might be late for my own appointment. Wait for me, I called out,  I’ll take the limited too. As we walked along together,  predictably,  the limited bus went rumbling past. You’re younger, I said,  run...

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Purim Spiel

Walking thru my building lobby on my way out to the dry cleaners,  I realized my Dominican doorman was staring at the elaborately embroidered caftan I was carrying on my arm,  bought by my son on a trip to Kazakstan. “This week is the Jewish holiday of Purim when we celebrate by getting drunk and dressing up in costumes.”,   I explained with a smile. “Oh yes,  we know,”  said our Irish concierge from behind the lobby desk,  “because every year just about this time Mrs...

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Rosie and Milt, The Literary Lady and the Second-Story Man

My uncle Milton wasn’t exactly a hardened criminal,  but the truth is he was once caught breaking and entering. Most of the time Milt was a mild-mannered,  slightly absent-minded professor of chemistry at Smith College and lived with my aunt Roseanne in Northampton,  Massachusetts in a wonderful Revolutionary-era house at the end of Popular Hill Road. Once  there had been a sign on their road that read DEAD END,  but my aunt Rosie was a published author and the chair of the Northampton...

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B. Smith

I was saddened  to learn about restaurateur Barbara Smith’s battle with Alzheimer’s,  and now she and her husband have chronicled their life with this debilitating disease in their book Before I Forget. I have followed Barbara career since she was a beautiful young model and in 1976 the second African American to grace the cover of Mademoiselle magazine. Also a talented Southern cook,  Barbara went on to open the highly successful B. Smith’s restaurant in New York’s...

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Minyan – for Uncle Sol

I don’t think of myself as an especially spiritual person,  but some months ago I had a religious experience. You may remember I blogged about two talented thespians in my family — my great-aunt Miriam and my uncle Sol.  (See The Roar of the Greasepaint – for Aunt Miriam and Uncle Sol) Miriam, a generation older, died many years ago,  but Sol died this past June,  just short of his 96th birthday.  Uncle Sol was a surrogate father of sorts to my husband,  and grandfather...

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